I'd say no to the link Cricket as she's a commercial site. I was able to google it easily.

I'm one of those mums. One who mourns for what she didn't get, but who wants to make the most of each birth.
DD2 was delivered with her placenta. They wrapped up baby and cord and placenta and handed her to me. In recovery I unwrapped her and cut her cord. I fed her. I chose my own drugs (yes guided by the anaesthetist and previous professional knowledge and personal experience of my own). I felt in control and happy with the outcome.

Now, I am strong enough to not be affected by the healthy baby comments, but for a long time I was not. I nearly lost one of my own babies - did they think I wasn't grateful?