the gist of this thread seems to be, if you were in pain afterwards, you are a wuss. i find that incredibly insulting.
I'm sorry you feel that way Gigi, but it is not meant in that way. Its just sharing a different perspective. Having a c/s is not a traumatic, painful experience for everyone and I think that our views and experiences are just as valid as yours and others who have suffered pain. It is nice to have both perspectives and share these with each other as we learn about labour & birth.