thanks, ladies.

from my preliminary discussions, I haven't been able to get much clarity, because some things will depend on who the ob is on the day ... I'm waiting to find out who the midwife will be, because s/he *might* be able to give me some more clarity, but I don't know when that will be ...

so I'd love to hear some personal experiences, to get an idea of what happens in real life, while I wait ...

thanks