Oh I hear ya hun. It totally sucks and I wish there was someway the system could be altered to get the aholes who do the sly thing with their money.

My ex owes me in excess of $15k. I was told he would not be allowed to leave the conutry until his debt is repayed as it is a long standing debt. His facebook page just a few months ago shows some wonderful pics of him enjoying a fun filled holiday in Fiji. Nice for some.

When I called CSA they told me I should have made them aware of the fact that he was going overseas and they could have taken measures to stop him... yeah right, like he is gonna tell me he is going on a holiday overseas! He has also been to New Zealand twice. There isn't much more that I can do but keep living my simple yet happy life with the people I love... it is so much more than he has right now. And I am more than happy about that!