Divvy - Thank you so much! It's really hard at the moment because we're on good terms and he thinks there is still the possibility of us getting back together. I don't, but I also don't want to rush to push him out of my life till i'm really sure. So I don't want to antagonise him by saying "I want this and that" but perhaps I should...

Thank you for your advice, i'm going to ring around on Monday and see if anywhere offers free consultations.

I just still can't believe that even though he's going to earn around 300K this year he still only has to pay $27000 It just doesn't seem right **shakes head**