Grrr at my friend!!

[*EJ*]

Sorry you had been put in this situation and good on you for working hard to provide for your LO. The system is set up to help people in need and good honest people who do need the help can have such a difficult time in getting it because of the grueling process they have had to set up to stop people missusing the system.

[Little Chicken]

good for you and your mum. Sounds like she was never going to 'fess up to it.