i do the estimate centrelink payments. put in DFs wage (i have tried putting no tax, and taxed) i picked parenting payment - partnered. it says i will get $0..

is that right?
When you go to the estimator choose Famil Assisrance Rmrate estimator NOT Centrlink rate estimator. And make sure you don't tick the box that says you are receiving any income support payments. Your partners income exceeds limits for any parenting payment but is well within the range for ftb.