thread: newly single - questions re Centrelink

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  1. #1
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    Dec 2006
    In my own private paradise
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    it can be, but doesn't have to be. if you have a large enough house to live as seperated under one roof (so you're no longer sharing a marital bed) and you have people that know of your circs
    it is definitely doable

    make all the same motions to have sep life as you would if he'd moved out (contact c'link, child support, bank to seperate financial ties) - if you need counselling, go and get it.... put house on the market and do everything to strive for independence

  2. #2
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    Jan 2008
    in my head
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    Satya - I'm really sorry to hear you're going through a break-up. That really sucks. Good on you though for "taking action" - I really admire your strength.

    You've had some great advice in here and I don't think I have much to add really except a
    Will your ex-DF keep up the mortgage payments while he stays in the house at least? This might be at least some worry off your mind while you sort out the rest of your financial situation with CL.