jason, it's just the way it is. In fact in these situations it's "first in first served". Whoever applies first will get it. I also think you will find it's not necesarily "thousands" of $$ in discounts.

I sure if your split is amicable, you should be able to come to some sort of agreement between yourselves?

ETA - it's got nothing to do with what BG thinks or feels - it's just the law.