MG - call up and make an application. it's not going to be easy, i'll give you that - but you won't know if you don't try. seperated under one roof does happen, but as Lulu said, it's rare. basically, you have to provide statements from people that know you (and it's generally preferred to be people of "standing" within the community, like counsellors etc) that you are seperated. you need to be seen by the community as seperated. all finances (bank accounts, credit cards etc) need to be seperated. you will need to talk to the person at your appointment in regards to your current living arrangements - and i won't lie - it's not always going to be easy or pleasant - they will ask about more than just the rooms you sleep in. there will be questions in regard to care of your child (ie, do you do things together for her, or do you do them all yourself), do you prepare/eat meals together, the sexual aspects (or lack of) in your relationship. financial contributions to the upkeep of the house etc. you will be asked to apply for child support etc if it's granted. if you already have an arrangment in place for private child support, mention that.

it won't be easy, but it's not impossible.

hugs hun - this is a tough time for you

BG