I'm giving the accountant one more chance in the morning to have it sorted or attempt to have it sorted before I lodge the complaint with the fairwork ombudsman. My boss is just being completely unreasonable, I just wonder how another female can do this virtually on the eve of me having this bub. Such a stressful situation ATM.
Apparently family assistance office were allowing it to go through them direct or your employer but have since got it only going through the employer now, I'm just hoping they allow for circumstances like this that they are able to handle it instead.

Thanks all for your reply's