I agree with all of the above, tell them. And...



Don't EVER think that - it doesn't matter how you spend the money, it's not his or anyone elses business but yours and you don't need to justify yourself
Thank you
You are right. Im so used to doing it because i spent so long trying to get my sons dad to see the light and at least meet his son once but I have given up now. When I look at my very handsome happy little boy I know that I have nothing to be ashamed of