Thanks..Zee i kinda agree with you.....we dont necessarily need it , nor where we looking for it. Im not going to say no to it, but i know where your coming from.
I kinda feel weird about just 'taking' and 'spending' (as we are being encouraged to do) the $3k that is going to appear in my account. I dont know....i just feel weird about taking it.
We once struggled, its hasnt been all an easy ride for us.. mid last yr we had to watch every cent we got.. we were trying to pay off a house full of funiture, a car, we had a maxed out credit card that as soon as we paid abit off it we had to use it.. we did F all cause we couldnt afford it. DH worked hard and earned himself a few pay rises and finally found a better paying job...
Yeah we would like 4 kids.. we realise if we were to do that then money would be tight so we have decided that we will just leave it at 2 cause we dont want to have to struggle so we are giving up on our dream to have a big family..I guess thats life.
ETA: We still dont drink, smoke, go to the movies, rent dvds (or buy..apart from DD's) have foxtel..we always bargain shop etc
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