seperated under one roof is damn hard to prove sorry ladies - esp in this situation - he's moved out, and then moved back in - it's something that I, as a consultant like Lulu, would struggle to grant. it's a very hard situation and one i wouldn't wish on anyone - but i'd be reluctant to say you'd be given the benefit of the doubt and have it granted... if it were, it would be VERY short term and would be reviewed harshly due to him moving out and then back in - i would think you'd be expected to declare yourselves partnered, then hope like hell he gets a job in a hurry and moves out soon....

technically, you've shown that you can survive without him, so there is no financial need for you to share...