I have a 10 year old DD who gets a lot of homework (too much in my opinion).

She has a double sided homework sheet (maths, comprehension, vocubulary) each week, 30 minutes reading a night, a list of spelling words to revise for a test each Monday, a homework grid with a whole heap of activities to complete during the term (we aim for one a week), then there are the "extra" projects - dioramas, three minute public speaking talks, etc, that they do periodically (once or twice a term). She also needs to revise her times tables. It all adds up.

Concentration is not my DD's strong point. She has ADHD. Left to her own devices she would not get a lot done - unless it is something she is really interested in. DP usually sits down with her every night and spends time alongside her. It is done as soon as they get in the door (at 6pm because she goes to after school care) BEFORE any other activity. The reading she does in bed at night. She is an excellent reader so there is no need for us to listen to her.

I think the trick is to do it as soon as they get home so they get into the routine. Maybe you could institute a rule that there is no TV, playing outside, computer games, etc until it is done to a standard that you approve of. Perhaps you could start a little reward system for doing it without complaint???

At this age I dont think you can just let them not do it and pay the consequences. Homework is a new thing for them. I think they need a little guidance to get them into the habit/routine of it.

Maybe you could also speak to the teacher and ask him/her for some tips??

I agree it is tough though. And, when you are busy, it can be the last thing you need to battle.

I hope you can work it out x