You have done nothing wrong.. She is just 4 *sigh* I too have a 4 yr old that whines and complains and acts (imo) like a baby. I decide to watch one of my shows on tv.. He will sit there and cry and whine till I put a kids show on. I refuse to change the channel until I am finished but it is so annoying when I am trying to watch something.

We might ask Jacob to pick up his toys and he just whinges and runs away. I tend to think it is the age. they are just testing us to see what they can get away with. but in saying that my eldest was not like this at 4. My 2nd son was a little but more so around 5.

With Jacob we (not a great idea but it works) tend to say right then next time we go to the shops you will not get a treat. Whether it be a small toy or a milky way or something like that..
Well, I was kinda hoping I was doing something 'wrong' so I could 'fix' it lol....

Today has been yet another pleasant day filled with I DON'T CARE, and being ignored

I just wanna cry I am being beaten by a 4yo