My hubby refused to deal with ds1 this morning.
Its 10.35 and he's still at home.
I can't pick him up and take him. We live on 4th floor, stair access. He weights about 25kg and is about 120- 130cm.
I have a 20mth old who I don't want to scare.

I don't know what to do.
He has exams next Monday and Tuesday so he really needs to go. And its ridiculous, school isn't negotiable
Your husband just refused did he? ...to much in the too hard basket is it ? that makes me so mad for you .

and when you child 'gets his way' and stays home then what does he do? watch tv or mope around or annoy the bejesus out of you ?

(now i do understand the the fact you cant man handle him out side but your husband would be able to hey!)