its also children who have left the home who drain me.

one has a baby at a young age so i try to help a bit, but she can be so anxiety ridden and rude that it can be so hard to be around.

another is a whole other story the hurt, suffering, embarrassment she has caused me which is so didnt deserve instead of having a short chat with me, when she misunderstood protective behaviour of mine towards a sibling.

in families people have to work to be tolerant, forgiving, polite, considerate, and i am sick of giving and giving and being on the receiving end of rudeness and ungratefulness or worse.