im pulling my hair out

[*Efjay*]

There is a blog called "My Aspergers child" have a read of the articles on that & also if your google ADHD Australia a page will come up that the web address is pretty much the normal blurb ADHD . com. A lot of information on there also.
Don't jump to quick to ADHD learn what you can so you can identify the issues for what they are & not what they appear to be It could be nothing, it could be something that looks like the other or it could be a combination of all of the above.

[bubno.3]

Today : i spent one on one with him and he was a sweet little angel but then i asked him to pick up a hat and his toy but do u reckon he would do it without attutude and defiance... its like a switch one second nice as pie and the next a little pain in the bum. He was being good for a good 30 mins so i snuck to the car and grabbed two (one for his brother) bubble maker from reject shop from santa.... i hid them in my room ... as my 4 yr old was playing nicely and being nice i said you know what has happened this morning Santa came a little early and left two presents one for you and one for C ....he left them outside the front door . A said with a huge smile really mum really i said see what happend when you are really good and you sleep and dont yell and scream santa sees it and you got a present early... i said have a look on my bed ... he ran to my room and squeeled bubbles mum bubbles and theres two one for cam as well but im having the blue one ok .... and he was perfect . Then he snapped again as he was getting rough with C and after a warning i took the bubbles away and i thought he we go theres going to be a meltdown. Then they had there lunch and the attitude started again and i said your having a sleep after you eat as you must be tired... so there both in the room atm with the fan going flat out as it is so damn warm already ...and i can hear him playing up and he will be moved in a minute as i have warned him that the next time i have to come in he is on the couch ....
So it has been an up and down morning but better than yesterday ! Im getting my period too so im probably not fun to be around also lol and everytihing is annoying .

[bubno.3]

another meltdown as i type : started at 1 17pm as i turned the movie off as he was being naughty .... all i can hear is i want the telly on i want the telly on i want the telly on .... i have told him to stop the yelling and screaming but it goes in one ear and out the other .... i have left and come back it is now 1 33pm and we have had a meltdown and crying for no reason now i have put him in the bath only thing i could think of to calm him down FFS what it wrong with this child ..... i cant wait for the dr and specialist to be back up and running as i have been pushed to my parent limit .....
We got into luke warm bath as its hot here and he started up again like i put him in a freezing bath it was unbelievable... i told him to calm down and sit in the bath ...unreal is all i can say

[bubno.3]

and then i said to him why were you yelling and screaming and he said 'cause i wanted the tv on ' i said well you dont yell and scream as that is naughty and naughty boys get no tv no this no that .... i then said your going to bed when you get out of the bath he said no im not .... and i said ' im sick of you being a naughty child and i would like it ti stop and when i get you out of the bath is 5 mins you will be going to bed to have a sleep '
all in this time with me shouting (which isnt cool i know) and his screaming my 2 yr old is asleep

That is a typical day for me when my 4 yr decides that having a melt down is better than accepting things and being nice