I hear you babe ! i get the same thing going on here drives me to the rum can almost every night lol lol i see your oldest is going to be a teenager soon you may find you are getting a bit of hormonal tantrums not sure if you are thinking the same but i found evening primrose helps with mood swings ( even at this age DD 1 was 8 when it started for her) there is also a book Princess ***** face syndrome give it a read it will really open your eyes and give you some help with coping Good luck !!!!