Aaaahh Christy once again I have to say that I wish we lived closer. Please know that I'm praying for you all. I know the frustration, grief and pain of having a child who doesn't neatly fit societal "norms" (although it's in a different way to what you're facing). No advice from me, you're doing all the right things. I think I'll do a bit of "listening" and get back to you