thanx everyone

i think i will give the PPP another go i just have been sooo frustrated lately that i always end up yelling and what not so i will have to kickk it up a notch and have a talk with him and tell him that if i ask once and he doesnt do it its time out and set some house rules...

i guess aswell coz he used to stash things in his room before time out he would climb on top of the cupboard and find like a screwdriver and put it in his room then in time out stab the window sill with it.....they are actually down to those lil fold out couches for beds now and there sheets thats it,no furniture or draws or clothes coz it gets broken and goes everywhere and he used to pee on them

i have also found my son running on the roof too he can be a big pain iin the bottom
he shares a room with his sister and now because they hate their door being locked thy go straight to sleep but they tend to both end up in our room in the middle of the night and he still wets the bed probly every night so still have nappies on him but i think he might be alil young yet and me and dh both had afew issues with that when younger

and i think the trampoline would be a great idea so will have to get one when we have spare money

thanx girls....