her father won't talk to me about the topic at all.

sometimes he has so much lack of empathy, i wonder if has Aspberger's or something. You know, really smart at maths and tech stuff, but like a block of ice about emotions, relating to people etc. Hope my very poor grasp of Aspberger's is not going to offend any BB members who have kids on the spectrum - hope i haven't said the wrong thing. Poorly expressed i know.

bilby didn't mention the topic today - feel like i got a reprieve. one day free - although i was on my guard for it all day. She got close a few times, but i headed it off at the pass.