hI,

I'm sorry don't have any experience with these kind of issues but I just wanted to say I hope you get someone in here who can help.

Maybe you could sit her down and explain that just like she doesn't like people bossing her around and other people don't like it either. Maybe you could start some sort of star chart rewards program for not bossing people around.

Don't let people tell you she'll never have any friends I think thats a load of crap!