Hey Ellie

Good luck on your TTC journey!

Re. EWCM

You can have this several times throughout your cycle...mostly during O time, but I also found it would happen after O as well...EWCM is a secondary fertility sign...so it can't be truly relied on as the main indication of O

Re. Temps

Everyone has different temps...so it's hard to tell whether yours are normal, low or high...my temps weren't always the same from cycle to cycle...some cycles they seemed higher than others...for no apparent reason...it's all about the pattern, not the specific temps...

Re. BD-ing

You've certainly increased your chances by the amount of Bd-ing...well done! It does all depend, though on when you O'd. From what I understand, the best chances of conception are 2 days before O, O day, and 1 day after...I think O-1 and O day are the absolute best!

Remember...even if you BD on the exact days, each cycle has a 25% of conception...so don't put too much pressure on yourselves...I think the stats are 80% of people fall pregnant within the 1st year of trying...so it might take a few cycles...

I found on-line charting through Fertility Friend to be fantastic...you can sign up for a 30 day free trial...it has an on-line tutorial that you can do, that teaches you all about fertility signs, O, the time for BD-ing, etc.

Wishing you all the best...and enjoy your TTC journey...hope it's short and sweet!