she is a cow tell her to sod off! - you dont need that negativity around you ATM.
if it makes you happy set out your bubba's room- it's one lessthing to do when you little one comes.
The longer you wait for your bubs the more special it is, whilst i think it's great that people are lucky enough to get UTD first time, they cannot possibly know the pleasure that comes form the yearning of a child. they have not had the months of dissapointments, medications failing , obsence amounts of ob/gyn appts. it makes it so much more special . Just MHO.
big hugs big hugs
Last edited by M22; October 1st, 2008 at 11:06 AM.
I'm sorry to see your chart has taken a turn for the worse.
I hate those people who seem to fall pregnant at the drop of a hat. They are often the same people who don't have a clue how to speak around ladies who don't have such luck and who do things like flick through a pregnancy magazine or talk incessantly about their own pregnancy in front of a woman who's just had a miscarriage and don't think they are doing anything wrong.
Hey Belle, ... Just wanted to pop by & say I reckon your charts look fantastic ... you are ovulating brilliantly ... and just to add I was pregnant naturally (with a fair bit of work) with my 1st bub at 39 (had her at 40) ... anything is possible AND all looks very super dooper promising for YOU
I second SATYA there ... We had being trying for no#2 since July last year & I was in a local market & ran into a Mum from my old Mother's group she telling me she & 3 other Mum's from the Mother's group are pregnant ... She added by telling DP & I " You both need to get a move along in getting preg & keep up with us"
She very well knows I'm 42 ... they are all about 32 to 34yrs ... and she knows how I had trouble falling preg the 1st time !!
... What she didn't realise was DP & I only the day before were given the heartbreaking news from a IVF specialist that it doesn't look promising to fall pregnant even on IVF because of my age (42) ...
I left that market guttered & bawling my eyes out & until this day I'm still shattered about the comment (& all these Mum's now happily walk about town with their 'new' 2nd bub's)
BELLE, what a nasty neighbour ... no more FREEBIES for her ok ... YOU SHOW "EM WOMAN
Hi guys,
Thanks for all your support. Temp has dropped below coverline today (13dpo), so AF is definitely on her way
You might have been right about O day Liz. FF does seem a bit sus. Hope I can read my signs better next cycle.
Satya , LSK- some people definitely do not think before they speak. Makes you wonder how they could be so thick?? I am sure my pain shows on my face. This particular woman for sure know that we have been trying for 2 yrs now.
Oh smiles4u I am so sorry you had to go through all that! I do agree with LSK, though. It does make us stronger and in a sense more "special" having gone through all the heartache and longing for a child. Aren't you glad we have BB? I get up everyday and the first thing I do is turn my computer on!! It makes my day even when I'm really down. I wish I could say something intelligent to make you feel better but I don't have words to explain. Just know that I understand how you feel and sending heaps of hug: to you.
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If it wasn't for you gorgeous girls at BB, i don't know how I'd cope! DH can only understand so much.
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finally arrives. Can't wait though. How are you travelling?
I would have put O a day earlier than it has tho. But that's just me.. I often disagreed with FF hehehe.
I am so sorry you had to go through all that! I do agree with LSK, though. It does make us stronger and in a sense more "special" having gone through all the heartache and longing for a child. Aren't you glad we have BB? I get up everyday and the first thing I do is turn my computer on!! It makes my day even when I'm really down. I wish I could say something intelligent to make you feel better
but I don't have words to explain. Just know that I understand how you feel and sending heaps of
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