Hi Herbie
It doesn't look like you've O'd yet but that's ok you're probably close. Just because you O'd on day 14 last month it doesn't mean it will/should have been day 14 this month - I have really regular cycles and I find I O anywhere between day 15 and day 19, it's definitely not the same day every month.
If you're finding it confusing I would ditch the CP monitoring for now. Cervical position is a secondary fertility sign (ie. you use it to confirm what you already know basically) and it will just confuse you further if your not sure what's going on anyway.
The most important thing to master is identifying what your CM is doing and getting the temps right. Once you get the hang of that reintroduce the cervical position thing. I have used charting for many years successfully and I've never bothered with CP, I don't think it's essential.
The other thing I'd suggest is to get hold of a book called "Taking Charge of your Fertility" by Toni Weschler. This is the charting bible and it explains every thing you need to know very clearly.
It will probably take you about three or four cycles to get a clear idea of what's happening and for everything to fall in to place.
Hang in there though, you're doing well and once you get the hang of it, charting is well worth the effort.
Good luck