So frustrated with this charting BS & only month 1 *irrational vent ahead*

[LimeSlice]

So I am using fertility friend. Excellent, very informative, etc feeling all empowered and all that jazz. Ace.

I happened to decide charting the day i got AF -bonus! That has to be good doesn't it? To start at the start. I even actually quit smoking that day also **

So I put all the info in, I had no OPKs so no definitive answers on Oing, but according to the chart I O'd CD10. Early, but not abnormal I m told, and understanding that this was only my first chart, not necessarily reliable.
So we DTD (we are swaying for a boy, so timing is important) all good

Then a few days later, i put in my temps etc ad got told that now my chart had changed and I hadn't O'd but was now fertile. So we DTD. The next day I put in the info and it changed AGAIN telling me I had infact O'd on CD 10. Ace cool.

Well now I have put in all the info for today, and added some 'specifics', and it is telling me again that I haven't Od that it can detect - I'm on CD 20!!!

So now I am all confused again lol This is ticking me off, Im not in the best of moods, I feel sick and irritable and tired and have backache, so not happy anyway.

According to the CD10 O date, I need to test on the 19th. Well I did one today anyway (because my nails are growing and really really white, and the only time that happens like this is when I am pregnant) so that was BFN.

How do people do this for months and years on end?? It is ****ing me off and I am only 20 days in!! (makes really think about how much I want a boy, cos if we didnt we would just be BDing all the time lol)

GRRR *vent over now*

[Winter]

Firstly can I just say a BIG congrats for quitting smoking?! Go you good thing!!

And yep, I hear you on the charting bollocks! Good luck though hun, its soooo exciting really!

[LimeSlice]

Thanks 20 days and all is well. I think it is easy when you wake up one morning and realise that you are just over it...13 years is a looong time!

Yeah, not feeling the excitement so much today

[Winter]

For quitting these are the hardest times -3 weeks, 3 months, 3 years!! You're almost over the first hurdle!

[~Raven~]

FF is a crock! It never gave me a definite O day till either AF shows up or I told it I got a BFP. Caused more frustration that anything in my case

That is all

ps 20 days is great too!

[rhyb]

Way to go on quitting smoking Alexys
WRT charting Id be hopeless but Im sure theres plenty of people here that can help you with your chart