Oh thanks you guys, that really does help ! I came off the pill last June (2007) so I thought I might be just getting into a rythm you know ? When I went to the DR and she told me the blood test was negative she gave me a number to book in for a ultra sound and more BT's . She is also checking for Diabetes because on top of everything else she said my sugar levels were a bit high in my urine so they'll check for that in my BT that I had done on Friday. About an hour ago, I went to the toilet and I had brown staining on my underwear (sorry if TMI) so I think AF is coming around ( 9 days late).

As for the stress part, I guess with all the wishing and wondering and getting emotional about not getting a BFP (even though technically we are not really trying, just not being careful ? ) Officially we are TTC next month but, I can't help but worry now that something might be wrong with me since I probably should have fallen pregnant by now ? I am going to Tweed Heads on Tuesday morning and we are hiring a car and going to Brisbane and Gold Coast etc. We haven't had a break for a year and a half so yeah, I think with all that is going on stress may definitely be a factor ! So I'm hoping to just relax and enjoy 13 days away with my DH and deal with test results and things when I get back...... Oh my gosh I just realised ! AF is going with us !!!!! Aaaargh

Thanks for the well wishes and advice, Brightstar I am going to try the OPK and Renstar I hope you get your BFP this time darling, :goodluck2: Who knew getting pregnant could be such an "adventure"

Thanks again