Worried I am going to miss it!!

[misty]

Hi there.

I am sure you have already googled yourself silly finding info about gender swaying. There are websites that claim that DTD at O isn't as important at determining gender as other issues, such as diet, etc. There is plenty of conflicting info out there about what does work and what doesn't, as I am sure you are aware. But even alot of the sites that discuss the 'shettles method' disagree as to exact timings etc. Some say only DTD once on O day, others as many times as you want on O and the following day.

Did you get two lines on your OPK (although still negative)? Or just the one line? It may show tomorrow?? But keep in mind you actually get the LH surge about 1-2days 'before' O day.

I cann't give you advice as to what to do, because it really does depend on how important it is to you to try and get a specific gender (bearing in mind that it may still not work, regardles what you do). Only you and DH can make that decision for yourselves. My DH and I had this discussion ourselves and decided we couldn't try gender swaying because of the potiential disappointment (in either not falling pg, or taking longer to fall pregnant and still having the 'wrong' gender regardless).

I am really hoping that your efforts at gender swaying are successful.