Ash goes to childcare one day a week and thats it atm. I try get her out to parks and friends kids just so she can run around with other kids. Next year she'll do 4yr old kindy as well as the one day in CC.
You could look at occasional care? See if she can do couple hours here and there.

Jodi, if ppl make you feel bad about it just tell them you'll be more than happy for them to fork out the costs for her to go!