Daughter coming home saying Kinder teacher is hurting her...

[Pretty In Pink]

Thank you for all your responses ladies

Floweryfields no I haven't spoken to the director about this matter yet but I will do so on Monday and see how that goes. I would never run straight to the Department without speaking with the director first

I was just worried as a few of you have said DD is at that age where they can get things mixed up but when she kept repeating the same thing I thought there must be something to it?
I do worry not only for my DD but about the other children in get care.

I think I will speak with the director on Monday and say to her what DD has said to me and see what she has to say about it.

[OceanPrincess]

My DD at 4 was well aware of what actually happened vs what she tells us. Like Connie said, a few more questions and she's generally coming unravelled... Usually by confessing, lol, she'll start saying "we'll actually no mum, really what happened was that I did this, then DS did that... Well no really it was more like..."

Anyway. Have you told her how important it is to tell you what actually happened? That she won't get in trouble etc if she's been saying the wrong thing, sometimes things get muddled in your memory, but that's ok if she's sure she's telling you the right thing. I can normally tell at that point... DD wants to do the right thing, so if she's not quite telling me the whole story, it's visible somewhere, on her face, in her wriggly bum, etc.

I really think it's worth saying something, even if you're moving. Just in case.

By the way HotI and Connie - big hugs for your terrible experiences