Ali - If they are in the same centre and one of them wants to see the other, the centre can do that. Larger daycare centres usually have higher turn over of staff, but as you say, there is more than 1 person per room. FDC is usually cheaper than a centre but you do have to provide everything, whereas some centres will provide some things like food and nappies, depending on the centre.

Many FDC will have a routine that makes room for pickup and still allows plenty of sleep.

Whatever you decide hun, you will be able to change if they dont like it. I know that FDC is harder to get into up here, but LDC is also hard to get places in. Where ever you can get a place until you get your preference will help you to see what suits both kids.