I am just in the middle of thinking about daycare for next year. I am increasing my hours next year from .4- .5 FTE so will be putting the kids into daycare one day a week, and I am a bit torn as to which direction to go in.

I have had DD in daycare a couple of times and she wasn't really very keen on it, she was fine while she was there, but would scream blue murder when I left, which left me feeling awful for the rest of the day. DS is yet to any type of care other than being left with my mum (and the few times we have tried to leave him with anyone else, even people he knows- he has been hysterical).

Anyway- I am trying to decide between FDC and a centre, I have pros and cons for each so finding it hard to choose. I would like FDC, because I think DS would settle better in the smaller environment where he can be with his sister, and I like the idea of there only being a few of them together. However, I am worried about them having their afternoon nap disturbed to do school pickups. I also worry about it being just one person, so if they are having a difficult day they have no one to call on to lend a hand, where as you do in a centre.

I like the idea of a centre for my daughter, because dispite her protests when she has been previously, she really thrives with the social interactions of other children, and being the bright little button she is she really needs that added stimulation. I think it will be nice for her to also have some time without her brother as well. However, I worry that my little man might not adjust as well to the larger setting, and the fact he is away from his sister.

What are your thoughts on FDC vs a centre?