We found the 1st month the hardest. He cried abit, but they sadi that stoped about 2mins after we left. Tore at my heart strings though. Once you have a few photos taken to show you what baby is up to, it feels better. And, I personally, think the space is good for everybody, makes everybody appreciate each other more. As well as good for "socialisation" for the children. You will both be fine