thanks so much kate and rhf..
it's hard isnt it... i just feel so bad missing out on things that are important to him, his milestones etc. but well not really missing i guess, cos i get to see these things at home too. but you know what i mean. spending more time with him adn do things w him... i guess this is what we have to do for now. he's happy at day care and has carers who adore him.
like kate, i spend time in the morning abt 10mins when i drop him off to chat w the carers and see how he's going.
he's doing well, doing all the art work and stuff and mixing w other children etc.

thanks so much girls.. made me feel better!!

xoxoxx