Meow I really think you have misinterpreted LuluHB's postings here. As I read her posts she has expressed a wish to see all children integrated together in school, but has some concerns as to how long this can happen because of those children (not her own) who are raised to ridicule differences and also because of resources to ensure all children get a fair amount of attention and help in school.

As to the point of being happy her own children are healthy, I think this is just a really honest declaration and not aimed at anyone else. I know it is a feeling I share too. I am grateful every day my children are healthy and not because I would love them less if they were not, but because I know first hand how distressing it is to have an ill or disabled child. I have seen my son stared at by parents and children because he was different (when all he had were hearing aids) and I have heard the whispers. That was just as a baby. So yes I am grateful my children are now healthy and I'm sure this is all LuluHB means too.