Thanks for that perspective too bhoys girl - at our daycare 3 and 4 are in same room all the time and if the 3 year olds want often do the same e.g show and tell is normally for the 4 year old apparently but if the little ones pester can do too so I am concerned with boredom for DD having a very similar program for the next over 2 years.

That being said seems like difficult to get in to 4 year old kinder if not been at the 3 year old and I expect the long day programs will be in demand