You'll both be fine, I was an emotional mess last week for A's first day but she had a ball and when I tell her now that we are going to go to childcare to "play" with the kids she starts looking for her bag to pack her Elmo toy (for sleep) all ready to go

I had the major mummy guilts that first day and even the second day I got all emotional but today day 3 was a lot easier............think we take longer to adjust than they do.