Thanks for the thoughts so seems it really is the norm I wouldn't mind a morning but when I spoke to our local preschool they seem to think 2 days is better for their routine?? But I've put him on a list for when he turns 4 but seeing as its so hard I might go find another place just in case :/

I should if probably mention since he turned 2 he went through really bad separation anxiety and it can still be bad if I've gone out for the day and left him .... So thought he may not be ready yet as may make it worse....,,or who know may make it better?

Their are so many decisions as parents aren't there, I was also shocked to find out how much preschool is these days may have to pick up more work just to cover it lol

Thanks again ladies