This is something I often wonder when I read things about need for intrinsic motivation for younger than school age in particular - that can they really grasp concepts enough to 'get' intrinsic motivation. I don't know sometimes I really struggle with actually myself understanding why really I need DD to do something (e.g. getting out of car and into the house without a fuss/drama and within a reasonable time frame) - so she should want to do that for what reason - to make me happy? but really taking ages and wandering and dawdling makes her happy? so to me something on a chart seems like a good way to encourage her. Things with a consequence like treading on toys and them getting broken etc I am ok with and work fine with her - but there are some things when she says "why?" I do really struggle for what reason can I give her that should make her 'want' to do it intrinsically rather than for a sticker on a chart.
DD goes to kinder 3-4 program at her daycare - they don't appear to do sticker charts etc, but she often comes home with a stamp on her hand which is a reward for something or other (normally tidying up related) - I do think a star chart on the wall seems a bit over the top for kinder (I don't disagree with rewards totally though because I think it is very prevalent in the adult world also and therefore is just a part of life).


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