Talk to me about childcare...

[rufalina]

Family Day Care has a national webpage... familydaycare dot com dot au. And you can look up your area and see who runs it locally...

I go through my local council, and they run it for my area, through their infants home. I love it. It is very personal and feels right for me. A friend of mine used FDC and she met with a number of carers before she found one she agreed with. I think with a center you might find it a bit hard for them to stick to your routine, but with FDC they can be more flexible...

I approached it the same as Bath suggested. We were actually referred to the carer we have and went and spent some time with her and saw her with the kids and to date she has been great in accommodating our wishes and philosophies.

Do you know many other mothers in the area using care? Cause often they are a good source of referral.

Otherwise you will need to visit a local center and the one near DH work, and just trial them out.

Good luck.

[butterfly_warrior]

Sam's not really like most babies his age - he likes to sleep in until 8am pretty much every morning. Will have to break that habit for next year as DH leaves at 8am and I have to be at work by 8am! We've never really had the witching hour thing happen either. He's usually really good and happy in the afternoons.

Snugglybean, have PMed you, would love to hear what you've got to say...

Bath, your post has been really helpful, too. I'd never really thought about it before, but they do function in a very similar way to a school.

BW

[Mak]

It is a really hard decision. We have had DD1 in a privately run cc since she was 10months old. DD2 started last week as I return to work next week. We have had a really great experience over the last 3 years.
My experience has been that the carer's that have been at the centre have genuinely cared for DD. I think that you really have to trust your instinct and how you connect withe the philosophy of the centre/staff as it is a very subjective thing. I second the unannounced drop in to be shown around. I investigated FDC also and was unable to find a care scenario I was comfortable with - however that could have just been bad luck/timing.
The biggest issue we have found is the length of the days - I work 8-5.15 or 9-6.15 so the kids were pretty exhausted by the time we got home. This time I am only putting them in care for 2 days until #2 gets a bit older.
FWIW - I have just spent a few days orientating Ash - the girls in the babies room have detailed routines for all the bubs and seemed to follow the parents requests to the letter - even when it was difficult. They did not know I had snuck in the room either.
Ask lots of questions, check out private and council run centres (even if there are long waiting lists) and FDC also - it will make you more comfortable with your choice.
Good luck - I hope you can find the right fit for you and Sam.

[mrsmac]

Family Day Care has a national webpage... familydaycare dot com dot au. And you can look up your area and see who runs it locally...

I go through my local council, and they run it for my area, through their infants home. I love it. It is very personal and feels right for me. A friend of mine used FDC and she met with a number of carers before she found one she agreed with. I think with a center you might find it a bit hard for them to stick to your routine, but with FDC they can be more flexible...

I approached it the same as Bath suggested. We were actually referred to the carer we have and went and spent some time with her and saw her with the kids and to date she has been great in accommodating our wishes and philosophies.

Do you know many other mothers in the area using care? Cause often they are a good source of referral.

Otherwise you will need to visit a local center and the one near DH work, and just trial them out.

Good luck.

I agree with all of this, as you know I love Riley's FDC and he loves his carer so much too. I could wax lyrical for hours on the benefits of FDC LOL

[prama]

bw - where in syd are you?

i looked for ours here National Childcare Accreditation Council - Child Care Quality Assurance - NCAC
and gives the history of all the REGISTERED centres.

We go to a long day are at about $70 per day, and we absolutely love it.. the carers are very very loving and ive walked in when ds is sick and seen them just cuddling him and comforting him and paying him special attention. the centre also has lots of special days for the kids, celebrating differetn national days, special food, a great menu with foods fr diff cultures.
we had a fantastic mothers day celebration, mothers got spoil one evening with belly dancing, champagne, food, raffle for massage etc. fathers day was great and next week there's afternoon tea w grandparents. they also brought in little chooks for the kids to watch and learn etc.
ds absolutely loves it there!

[Sammiejane]

what Prama has mentioned is the thing that i guess i miss about child care, it is more structured like that and i guess in someways can be better as more activities need to be run to keep interest up.
I would love MJ to do a bit more at the FDC, but i guess that is based on who the carer is.
When i read what prama has posted, i cant help thinking that sometimes MJ misses out - but i pay less than half of what she does...

[Bathsheba]

...that's the thing... I looked into doing FDC myself but when you only earn about $2 an hour per child (I could only have 3 children due to having my own kids here as well... so that's a max of $6 an hour) you would start to wonder (if you offered lots of activities... everything seems to cost $ these days) if you end up actually paying to look after other people's children.

[prama]

sj - paying half of what we pay makes a big difference.. and i suppose there arent so many bugs to catch... both have their good and bad...

[rufalina]

I think my FDC does a bit with the kids. I know she has two other carers in her street and they meet in the park a couple of times a week, and there are also the organised activities from the FDC center, like playdays, and fundraisers and parent nights which we are able to be involved in too, but it is difference from a day care center with the resources. That is another reason they encourage you to use a pre-school when your kids are 3.5 for a few days a week to get them into that more structures environment.

eta - Prama where did you find long day care in Syd for $70 per day... I am amazed.... that is a great price...... I pay nearly that for FDC (8am - 6pm)

[Arimeh]

Definitely try to find one that you are comfortable with, and mesh well with - similar ideas etc. I've had the kids in a few day cares, DS went to one from when he was 10 months old, and DD when she was 3 months old. I didn't like the first one of hers, so switched her when she was 6 months for a MUCH better one. I wish I could do half the stuff they do at day care with my kids!!! I just don't have the knowledge to do child care stuff at home and I think DS is really missing out. The day cares that I have put them in have been something like $63 a day - food not included.

My sister has her kids in family day care, but I didn't choose this option mainly for the fact that if her family day carer is sick, or needs time off for a holiday or something - my sister has to make alternate arrangements for the care of her kids - so she usually gets my mum to help out. We don't have any family support where we are now, so if I was working and my FDC couldn't do a day, I'd lose a day's pay because I would have to stay at home. I much rather send them somewhere where it doesn't become my problem if the kids main carer is sick/injured/wants a holiday.

Different situations work for different people though - you have to find what sits with YOU the best.

Oh and my kids went from 7.30am to 5.30pm - veryyy long days.