thanks all!
lilias thank you that makes sense.. he is still very young.. hahah i guess we all want our kids to be getting great education! but so true about social skills listening and following instructions (which he is terrible at!!!!) guess he just hasn't seemed as happy since recent staff turn over at beginning of year and i wondered if he is bored? it has actually made me so confused about whether to keep him at the center but i have looked everywhere and am even trialing him at another.. but i still feel very comfortable with the center.. just this situation iykwim..and his new GL isnt very open with conversation. it has been driving me mad for months!!!