Good advice from Nai.

Also, does your kinder have mum/dad helpers? Like milk and fruit duty?

You might like to volunteer a few times until DD settles a bit more??

Why not invite a couple of the kids from kinder for playdates? Once she makes friends she will likely feel better about the whole thing.

Another thing, if the kinder has an animal (bird, fish, turtle, etc) perhaps the teacher can ask her to be the "special helper" that needs to come to kinder to look after it. That way you can build up her confidence and make it something to encourage her to want to go.

Good luck!!