Hey darl, scary isn't it. White or pale lips. REALLY bad lethargy or not really responding well. Not having wet nappies or really minimal ... you want at least one or two medium heavy nappies. If you are concerned get some pedialyte iceblocks, which will not only be good for her sore throat, but it will replace everything she's losing in dehydration kwim? Its best to keep up the fluids as much as possible whether it be through water or iceblocks such as the pedialyte other wise she will end up on a drip babe.