We have just had HFM in our house. It isn't a severe thing, though I did read it can turn into meningitis on VERY rare occaisions. So just watch if she says she had a headache or sore neck, take her to the GP asap. As for the HFM, there is nothing to do but give her panadol and ride it out. She may not want to eat much due to a sore mouth. My two developed ulcers in their mouths from the blisters they got. Oh the joys. Hugs hun, you are doing it tough lately!