Pop over to the hip dysplasia support group hun. Saved my sanity while DD was going through it.

DD's case was a bad one. Clicky hip at birth, tried to get an early ultrasound but got knocked back when she was two weeks old - told by the staff she was too little. Wish I had've been tough and insisted. She got officially diagnosed at seven weeks and into her first brace.

Going into the brace is hard. For the first couple of days she was really upset and unsettled. I walked up and down the hallway holding her at night as she cried because she couldn't stretch out her legs. And for me, it was so difficult and heartbreaking to have had this tiny baby who suddenly had these hard edges in a brace. We had to find a new b/f position, so be prepared for that. We ended up having DD straddled over my leg, her legs either side of mine with a pillow under my arm to hold her. It takes a bit to adjust. For sleeping, we put a small pillow under her legs from her knees down so her feet weren't stuck up in the air. We also got a beanbag so she could sit up in it. She loved playing on her playmat, with the arches that go over the top, kept her amused for ages. In the first brace she could fit into our bassinet, but not in the carrier (we had a baby bjorn). We weren't able to swaddle her either, so we tried to wrap her arms in and leave her legs free. After a few days she was happy to sleep unwrapped and in a sleeping bag. I've read things that say that swaddling isn't recommended for hip dysplasia.

DD's hips took a really long time to grow, but she was in the worst 3% of cases (as told to me by our surgeon on our last visit). In most instances, the brace works well. Take one day at a time. Stock up on some long socks, and cut the foot off. They will go under the bits that touch her legs and fold over them, working as a cushion/padding. It will stop sores forming. We weren't allowed to bath DD as the brace wasn't allowed to come off, so we worked around it by using the kitchen sink - lying her on the bench on a towel and washing her hair and giving her a sponge bath. It wasn't ideal, but it was doable. I'm not sure if you use cloth or disposable nappies - we used disposable and we had no problems with the brace, slipping them under the bar. There are a few different braces. We had the Denis Brown and then the Rhino. We could put her clothes over the Denis Brown, lots of jumpsuits and pants, one size bigger than she was in. The Rhino goes over their clothes. It sounds like you've described the DB brace. You'll probably have weekly adjustments - they want baby's legs to be as splayed as possible, but to do it in one hit will injure them further. We had to have three adjustments in the DB before her legs were in the correct position for the ball to remain in the socket.

I found googling images before hand to help. As horrible as the images are, it was easier to prepare myself for what DD would look like.

I won't lie to you, it is so hard. Breaks your heart. I had a period where I didn't leave the house because people stare and comment. But I soon got my perspective back and knew that she was healthy and she would get through it. She took longer to learn to crawl and walk, she learned to roll over in the brace. Now she's 2 1/2 and you wouldn't know that there was anything at all. She runs, jumps, kicks, everything a normal 2 year old should do.

Anything you need to know, ask away. I got lost in the surgeon speak, about angles and percentages. All I wanted to know was whether there was improvement and if the brace could come off . We had a wonderful surgeon and the guys that do the brace (they were both in North Melbourne) and really friendly and gentle (with mummy too ). We were on this rollercoaster for 11 months.