Huge hugs for you hun. Both MummyNaomi and WYSIWYG from my son's belly/baby buddy group went through it (Naomi has given some great advice for you already) and I remember how hard it was for both of them, but how relatively quickly both their kids adjusted and how well they coped. Kids are just amazing little creatures, and although I certainly wish your little Isla didn't have to go through this, I'm sure she'll be a real trooper and make you super proud. ♥