Yes I agree with Schmickers about seeing a paed gyno but I think they would be very rare and you might have to travel to see one. I would get several opinions as to who would be the best to see. I know our gynos do surgery on children although not as young as Bethany. Have they advised you on your options? Like wait till Bethany is older or look into surgery now? Will surgery prevent her getting the regular UTI's which you said she had earlier?
Thinking of you and Bethany