This will probably be quick and garbled, it is all happening at our place at the moment but I wanted to fill you in. The Pead agreed that the cream had made no difference over the month (duh) she has done a referal for the OB team for the chief consultant to do the op. She is the only one who has experiance and would do it. She also knows me since she took care of me in pregnancy cause of all the complications. Anyhoo, I asked about a pead surgeon and was told that since DD's condition could be dealt with here we aren't eligable. Not sure about that but for now I am happy to sit back and see what the OB thinks. It is still a complete fusion with the tinist of openings, Although I could leave it it would cause difficulties toliet training. As it is we will have to wait for the OB clinic to have a spot and so on so it could be months before it is resolved. In the meantime we can stop the cream.
Thanks Snickers for the links they really helped
And thank you to those who have said they have been here before. It helps so much.

Well DD was up all night. Just screaming and wanting me. My mum flew home this moring oh and DH has the flu probably swine but there is so much of all the flu bugs up here at the moment who can tell. They are just telling people to stay home, drink, panadol, etc. I tell you if it isn't raining its pouring!